As you get acquainted with our single ladies and couples I wanted to remind you that all of the members are already interested in black men, may sound like a dumb statement but there’s a method to my madness guys, bear with me, lol. Interracialnation has given you a golden opportunity to meet REAL women and couples that are here for the sole purpose of meeting YOU!!!. There’s no guessing involved here no time wasted on your part. So the point I’m trying to make to you is this, remember it is YOU that can make or break a connection on this site. Hey, it’s all in the approach and the attitude. Just want to share with you a few things that I find important when I am meeting a potential playmate:
- men who are well spoken – By this we mean men who have command of the English language. Nothing turns off a real woman faster than a guy who acts like he forgot how to talk.
- serious men, no game players - Our community is about real people. And real people have other time commitments. Some of us have jobs, families, ill relatives to care for, etc...real life situations to deal with. SO the last thing we need is a guy who makes plans and does not follow through on them. Our time is precious and valuable. Please show us that you understand this.If you're a game player or a time waster, then our community is not for you.
- no cheap skates - We are very upfront about the fact that all women and couples can join our community for free where as single men have to pay a small monthly fee. If you cannot understand why we do this then our community is obviously not for you. Also, if paying a few dollars a month is too steep for you, then our community is not for you. If you can't pay a few dollars, then how can you afford to meet a couple or a woman out for a cocktail or 2.
- men who know how to talk to women - Nothing is worse than getting that first message from a man and all it says it 'hey ma' or 'sup'. And some of you guys wonder why we never answer your emails. Talk to us as you would if you saw us in a swinger club or night club. Don't say 'hey slut' in your first email. Introduce yourself, let us know who we're talking to. Find out what we're about before you start throwing around the dirty talk. Remember, our community is all real people. Talk to us like you would talk to a real person in real life. If you can't grasp this concept, then our community is not for you
I hope that this gives you a better idea of what kind of guys we’re looking for. If you find that this is not for you, we wish you well. However if after reading my blog, you feel like you’ve found a home, we say WELCOME happy to have you!! I look forward to chatting and hopefully meeting you soon. XOXO Samantha
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